Hey everyone! I’m Annamarie Myers. I’m here to write about sex and sexuality, talk about my own experiences, and create good discussions about the human sexual experience.

I am a queer cis woman. I date all genders and I am on the asexuality spectrum. I am kinky, and I identify as a switch who leans a little bit more to the sub side. I am both a little girl and a Mommy Domme, and I find both of those roles to be incredibly fulfilling. I am a survivor of sexual and emotional abuse.

I chose my blog title because I often feel like I’m in the middle of things, in various senses of the phrase. I’m in the middle of my college education. I’m in the middle of recovery from my abuse. I’m neither gay nor straight, neither sub nor domme, neither femme nor butch, but also kinda all of those things.

In another sense, I want to be in the middle of the discussion about sex education and sexual rights and sex toys. I want to be a part of the sex positive movement, I want to be right in the thick of things. I want to talk about my own sexuality, my personal sexual experiences, and also the bigger issues involving sex and our society.

Some of the writing I’m most proud of includes On Ballroom Dance, Domspace, and Platonic Power Exchange, On Pregnancy, Shame, and Abstinence-Only Sex Education, On Being Comfortably Ugly, I Didn’t Know They Were Called Orgasms, and On Vaginas As Muscles.

My favorite vibrator is the Magic Wand Rechargeable, my favorite butt plug is the Tantus Neo, and my favorite dildo is the Tantus Adam Super Soft. I prefer my clitoral stimulation broad and indirect, and my insertable toys in the 1.5″-1.75″ diameter range.

You can find me on Twitter at @myers_annamarie.