For most of my life, orgasms have not come very easily to me. They take time, effort, and energy, three things that I do not always have an abundance of. I like to masturbate in the morning, before I get out of bed, and more than one session has ended in me noticing that I’ll be late if I try to continue and abandoning my orgasm in favor of catching the bus. Also for most of my life, I have gotten off by humping pillows. There have been two instances in my entire life that I have achieved orgasm through rubbing my clit with my fingers, and both of those orgasms were weak and lackluster.
Humping pillows involves broad, indirect stimulation, pressure, and movement. Incidentally, wand-style vibrators also offer broad, indirect stimulation (pressure and movement optional).
The first time I used my Magic Wand Rechargeable was an absolute experience. After it arrived, I had to wait a few hours for it to charge, and by the time it was ready, I was all hyped up and excited to give it a try. I went from a cold start, not wanting to delay the moment of truth any longer, and there was no porn involved because I wanted to just focus on the sensations. I was fully clothed and I still had to use a blanket to muffle the vibrations because they were so much more intense than anything I’d ever felt before. I also started out with the wand adjacent to my vulva instead of on it, not wanting to shock my bits. I’m not sure how long it took me, but I do know that after I gradually moved the head of the wand onto my clitoris, I had a damn good orgasm. That was a revelation for me: not being incredibly horny or spending a large chunk of time reading smut and getting turned on, and I still had an orgasm. Sound the freaking trumpets!
The head is fairly firm, I can only squish it if I exert a considerable amount of hand strength. The neck part has a little bit of flex to it, but only a few degrees in any direction. I love this because it means I can apply very firm pressure to my vulva.
I still tend to use a barrier with the MWR, because it is very strong. Sometimes I’ll warm up with a few blankets in between the Magic Wand and my crotch, and then gradually remove them as I get more turned on and want more stimulation. I almost always use the first setting. I’ve only ever used the second setting a handful of times, and I never use the third of fourth setting. The lowest setting is the most rumbly, so it feels the best to me.
One of the few problems I have with the MWR is that it makes me come too soon. This may not sound like a problem, but it really is. It’s difficult to have a leisurely masturbation session when I have an orgasm two minutes in. It feels really good and I want it to last, but it’s over before I know it. It’s just really strong, there’s no getting around it. On the flipside, there are now often orgasms during my lunch break, which is excellent. My other complaint is that my outer labia often feel uncomfortably numb and tingly after using the Magic Wand, which makes for a grumpy post-orgasm vulva. It should also be noted that the MWR is really large and heavy, which can make it difficult to maneuver, or to hold for long periods of time.
Before the Magic Wand Rechargeable, orgasms were slow to show up, and I couldn’t always have them when I wanted to. The MWR allows me to come within a few minutes without any warmup. It’s great for those days where I know I’ll feel better if I have an orgasm, but I don’t have several hours to work up to one. It may be expensive, but for me, it has more than paid for itself, and it is hands down the best money I have ever spent on a sex toy.
The Magic Wand Rechargeable is $124.95. I got mine at Tantus, where it ships free!
You can also get the Magic Wand Rechargeable at SheVibe, where it also ships free!